More literary advice on dealing with haters. This time it comes from "No Country For Old Men" by Cormac McCarthy, which I haven't read yet but have seen. And from Jesus Christ! Ellis on seeking revenge: "Well, all the time ya spend trying to get back what's been took from ya, more is going out the door. After a while you just have to try to get a tourniquet on it." And this article "Christian Nonviolence" by Walter Wink gives an interpretation of "turn the other cheek" as defiance instead of submission. http://www.zmag.org/content/showarticle.cfm?ItemID=6889 This is the kind of reaction we should have towards haters: "Try again. Your first blow failed to achieve its intended effect. I deny you the power to humiliate me. I am a human being just like you. Your status (gender, race, age, wealth) does not alter that. You cannot demean me." The opinions of this spouse do not necessarily represent the views of Melinda, although she did ask Rob to post this on her channel, because it's over ten min.